ABDL / diaper play

An adult diaper worn as the point of the scene, not as a prop for something else.

Why people do it

A regressive headspace with very little to do with sex for many of the people who like it — it is about being cared for and having no responsibility, and it usually wants a gentler evening around it.

Smallest way in

Say what it is and what it is not before anything is worn. This one is misread more often than any other on the list.

What to watch

Change promptly; skin gets sore quickly. Agree whether this is sexual or not, because for many people it is not, and treating it as the other kind is the thing that goes wrong.

In the planner

6 different things carry this tag, and switching it off removes every one of them. The mildest of them sits at easy.